A woman was separated from her husband for many years.
She has to remain at her husband‟s home during the Iddat. Only if there is a valid reason, may she go to her parents for the Iddat period.
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Nikah (Marriage) - Talaaq (Divorce)
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What does this statement of Umar radhiyallahu anhu mean: ―Marriage is slavery, so be careful with regards to whom you give your daughter for enslaveme
It means that the wife is under the domination and jurisdiction of her husband. It is Waajib for her to obey him in all things which are permissible even if she dislikes it. It is…
Who should a man obey, his mother or his wife, and how should he keep this balanced?
It is Waajib for everyone, males and females, to obey their parents in all things which are permissible. It is not permissible to obey them if their instructions pertain to haraam.…
What is the ruling if a mans' mother orders him to divorce his wife?
If the mother has a valid reason - if the wife is evil and ruining her husband - then he should obey his mother.
Does a woman's husband come before her parents?
Only the Shariah comes first, no one else.
Why does the husband have to listen to his mother but the wife should listen to her husband not parents?
Because Allah Ta‟ala has commanded so. But it should be understood that the husband AN AVALANCHE OF POISONS & HARAAM
My wife's nephews hug and kiss her when they come to visit.
Most certainly it is not proper. The nephews should not hug, not kiss, nor embrace their aunt. Nor should they shake hands. Only verbal Salaam suffices. Kissing and embracing is…
What is the status of the Muslim marriage certificates which the Home Affairs now issues?
The marriage certificates issued by the government are scraps of paper in terms of the Shariah. Islamically these scraps of paper have no validity. They are only for…
A Sheikh advised a woman to obey her husband even if his demand is haraam in order to save the marriage.
Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: "There is no obedience to anyone in sin against Allah." The sheikh‟s answer is pure drivel and haraam. The wife should refuse to…
According to the Shariah, what is the minimum age limit for marriage?
There is no age limit for marriage. The government is the agent of Shaitaan. The laws of all governments are the laws of Taghoot.
My husband gave me three Talaaqs while I was in hospital.
Iddat commences immediately from the time the Talaaq is given regardless of one‟s condition. The Iddat will be three haidh (menses) cycles. Your ex-husband is a cruel jaahil.…
My mehr was one kruger rand stipulated at the time of the Nikah 12 years ago.
It is Waajib for your husband to give you one krugerrand. Forget about the value. Ask for the coin. After he has paid the Mehr with the coin, then you may decide to sell it or keep…
A man wants to cut off the water and electricity supply of his ex-wife.
Cutting off her water and electricity supply will be of the worst kind of zulm. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said: "Whoever gives someone water to drink in a place where…
My husband does not allow me to visit my parents.
If your husband has no valid reason for prohibiting you, then he is committing zulm and will be punished by Allah Ta‟ala. Nevertheless, it remains incumbent for the wife to obey…
I am about to get married.
Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said that it is not permissible to obey anyone in anything which is sinful. Obedience to Allah Ta‟ala is incumbent. Therefore, ignore the…
In a fight with my husband, I demanded that he gives me Talaaq.
Khula‟ has taken effect. One Talaaq Baa-in has come into effect. The Nikah has ended. You are in your Iddat. After expiry of the Iddat, you will be free to marry anyone of your…
Is a woman who is observing Iddat due to Khula‟ entitled to maintenance?
Yes, maintenance for her is Waajib during the Iddat period.
Can a husband refuse to pay maintenance to his disobedient (naashizah) wife?
Literally „naashizah‟ refers to a wife who is disobedient to her husband in lawful instruc-
Is the Antenuptial contract and Tafweedh document prepared by Darul Ihsaan valid?
The entity Darul Ihsan is a deviate modernist clique. Do not use any of their documents prepared. Antenuptial contract which excludes the accrual provision is necessary to enable…
Is it necessary for a wife to get permission from her husband to spend her own money?
Yes, it is necessary. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) instructed that the wife should consult with her husband and gain his permission.