How are we supposed to maintain family ties.

Answer

Family ties are correctly maintained by acting according to the Shariah. Although dua should be made, the requisite is to ensure that your conduct towards family members is kind, forgiving and helpful. But this does not mean pleasing them in their haraam. For example, if they have a haraam wedding function, it will not be permissible to participate even if they become annoyed. Rasulullah (Sallallahu alayhi wasallam) describing maintenance of family ties said: "It is to be kind to unkind relatives."