Question
If young girls 4 to 8 years come in front of my sons with short t-shirts and tight pants - - many a times there pants are white or light in colour and their undergarments show, or when they bend over their backs open-- what should I do as a mother? Their parents are totally oblivious of their dressing. My sons are growing and the girls are growing. I feel extremely uncomfortable but I am scared to have another episode with my family. Am I being like a mute shaytaan?
Answer
It is Waajib for you to prevent the scantily dressed girls, even the 4 year old, from entering your home. Do not allow your sons to be near to them. Nowadays parents prepare the pathway for zina for their little children. They begin with lewd, haraam kuffaar dress. Then they allow the girls and boys to mingle. What has happened to their Aql? The lewd manner in which they dress their little children is a clear sign that they have no respect for the Law of Allah Ta'ala. Even if they are donning abaya and niqaab it is mere external show of assumed 'respectability'. Their hearts are bereft of Purdah. Such lewdness is practiced even in the homes of Maulanas.
State the truth without debating the issue. If the parents argue, maintain silence. You will discharge your obligation by stating the haqq.
- Source
- themajlis.co.za
- Published in
- The Majlis Vol 28 No 06
- PDF page
- 9
Appears under TALAAQ OF BIPOLAR PERSONS (approximate).