Question
I shall be getting married. The girl's side wants to have a reception and we want to have a Walima. Can we do it as a joint event where we (the boy's side) pay for the food and the girl's father pays for the venue?
Answer
The joint/hybrid affair described by you is not a walimah. The walimah is a simple feast by the husband. After the Nikah, a few relatives, friends and some poor persons should be invited to a simple feast. There is no need to hire a venue. The customary reception organized by the girl's side is not permissible.
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